Lets treat that topic as something about honour and roleplay - so few things for you to discuss as well:
1) Unusual thing - some noble person (lets call it knight, though it can be takhisis, heretic, solamnia or any other) come to reraid or defend during raid and dies.. Very noble enemies return him ALL of his clothes and weapons. What a noble person should do now? Return his item back. He goes, dies again, noble enemies give him all back. Rinse and repeat:)
2) Second thing - all cry about full loot. Men, be honest with yourself. If you wont be allowed to loot ( full loot is actually a very thin notion, that cant be fully defined) - will you play that game?? It will turn into another quest mud with limited pk
Wanted to say something else - but forgot