Well, first of all, Thelemon is no more, or so I understand, what with his lack of presence in the realms and all, but like you say, that's another story.
If we're going on about honor of Knights and such, can we please, please talk about the Knights of Takhisis?
From the title the Knights of Takhisis, and the fact that the pantheon of gods is fully intact (implying that Solace does not take place after the War of Souls), one can assume then that this is the force formed by Ariakas prior to the War of Chaos (think that's what it's called, haven't read that book in a while).
Now, the thing about the Knights of Takhisis is that they were based primarily on Solamnia. Since Takhisis found that with the individual ambitions of her commanders, her armies collapsed and she lost the War of the Lance. Ariakas, son of Ariakan, was captured just after that war by the Solamnics. They didn't execute him (no clue why), but rather kept him prisoner. During that time, he studied them and their code, their honor and strategies and so forth (again, no clue why they let him see all this). He formed the Knights of Takhisis on those same factors, honor and loyalty to ones' comrades, etc, with the exception being that they were devoted to Takhisis instead of Paladine, basically.
Now, to judge from the current RP I've been seeing from the "Knights of Takhisis" of Solace, this really isn't the case. Very rarely, if ever, do we see one of them behaving as they would have in the proper Knights of Takhisis, with honor and respect for their foe, not kicking when their foe is down, so to speak. They didn't burn down cities they captured, but rather protected them and the citizens, even helping them prosper more. I could go into detail on this, but this post is already getting long as it is.
Anyways, the gist of this is, either the current "Knights of Takhisis" should be playing like Solamnics just devoted to a different cause, the capturing (NOT destroying) of the world for their Queen, or else rename them the Dragonarmies again.
And that's it for this rant for now, been bugging me for a while
PS. Yes, I like to read Dragonlance, have for a while, and remember details decently
Anyone is welcome to reply of course, and perform verbal ripostes if they deem it necessary